Brethren, I
count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do,
forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things
which are before,
Philippians 3:13
It seems
that everyone is familiar with the idea that New Year’s resolutions are
supposed to be made and broken within a couple weeks of the beginning of the
new year. At least that is the way many people act like New Year’s resolutions
are supposed to work. I suppose it is because many people live their lives that
way. It takes a lot of character and discipline to decide to make changes in
your life and then stick with those changes. A New Year’s resolution can be
anything from deciding to read the Bible and pray more, to deciding to get back
into shape, to deciding to save money to go on a nice vacation. The number of
resolutions that you could make is huge, but you know yourself best. You are
the only one who can decide which changes would be best for you. Here are a few
suggestions to help your New Year’s resolutions last longer than the time it
took to make them:
·
Make a chart with all of your resolutions listed on it.
Research says that it takes twenty-one days to make something a habit. Check
off each item in the list as you do it every day, and in three weeks it will be
a habit.
·
Make yourself accountable to someone else regarding
your resolution. Tell a trusted friend of your desire to read your Bible or
pray more, and ask them to ask you each day or every couple days if you are
sticking to it. Decide to meet someone each morning for prayer and Bible study
if you are trying to become more like Christ. Get a workout partner if you are
trying to get fit. You are much more likely to reach your goal if you know
someone else will be let down if you don’t keep your resolution.
·
Ask for help in ways that you can keep your
resolution. Your parents or counselors will be excited to hear that you are
trying to make changes in your life and can give you valuable insight into
things that will help you reach your goals.
·
Ask God to help you continue in your resolution. This
is the most important step. God can help you through the times when you want to
quit on your goal.
Keeping a resolution requires patience and
persistence. Mix that with a healthy dose of determination, and with God’s
help, you will have a winning combination to help you become the person you
want to be in the new year.
Quote of
the day: “If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.”
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